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1.?please describe a most impressive memory in your?childhood.
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ⅰi have a really tough time remembering most events of my childhood, but there is something in my memory.
when i was about five years old, my parents didn’t have time to look after me, so i was sent to the countryside to live with my grandparents. the air was fresh in the village, and the natural beauty was beyond my imagination. i always went to the riverside with other children. we went swimming in the river in the summer. the water was so cool, and we also went fishing. sometimes we played with water the whole day and we couldn’t catch anything, but we still enjoyed the process. after we caught some fish in the river, we took the fish home and asked our grandparents to cook them. i like the local people because they were very friendly and simple. the children shared the toys they made with me and i shared my toys with them.
maybe that period of time was the most impressive for me.
ⅱ i can still remember lots of things i did in my childhood and things that happened when i was a child. sometimes those memories seem so lucid that it seems those events occurred only a few days back.
anyway, a childhood memory i can still remember so clearly is the first time when i saw a massive death. i was a kid in class three or four then and one day i heard that there had been an accident near our home. my mother asked me whether i wanted to go or not. i went with her and speculated lots of things about the accident but when i watched 10 dead people were kept lying on the ground and among them there were 2 kids too, i was devastated about the massive dead scene. i started feeling sick and started vomiting there. my mother took me back home and i was ill for about two days.
this memory was important to me because it helped me to think about life in a different way. i could realize then what the dead are and how fragile our lives are. this memory helped me to grow faster and opened my eyes of vision.
2 why is childhood such an important stage in one’s life?childhood?is?the?time?when?we?should?learn?values,language,cultural?norms?and?traditions.we?learn?how?to?interact?with?people;we?learn?right?from?wrong;we?learn?how?to?live?in?society?without?being?considered?a?pariah.we?also?learn?the?consequences?of?acting?outside?social?mores.we?learn?that?life?is?not?fair;we?dont?always?get?what?we?want.we?learn?about?controlling?our?desires?and?passions...it?is?much?easier?to?learn?these?things?as?children?than?as?adults.think?about?it:it?is?when?you?learn?a?lot?about?life.you?learn?how?to?deal?with?friends?and?relationships;you?learn?many?basic?skills?in?school;you?set?patterns?of?habits?for?your?lifestyle;you?understand?much?of?the?world?around?you. childhood?is?a?time?of?learning?when?responsibility?becomes?important?and?your?personality?and?attitude?are set.then you?change?from?childhood?curiosity?to?self-awareness?and?capability?of?adulthood. undoubtedly, childhood is an important stage in life. it is a stage that needs a lot of guidance and care especially from the parents?and caregivers.it is a moulding stage for growing children. we can build up our characteristics and maybe personal values and begin to obtain the ability to recognize our surroundings thus to establish our own capability of judgment, which certainly lays a foundation to our further development.it’s said that although we have a choice in becoming the people we strive to be, it is without a doubt that our childhoods shape us to a certain extent. how we choose to react to different situations and the way we express ourselves our behavioral patterns that are formed starting at a young age.
taking my childhood as an example, i still remember...
i?have?the?experience?of?almost?getting?cheated.?one?day,?when?i?was?at?home,?i?got?a?call,?at?first,?i?did?not?know?who?called?me,?the?person?said?he?was?my?teacher,?he?called?my?name?and?told?his?name?to?me.?i?could?recognize?my?teacher’s?voice,?the?person?in?the?phone?was?my?teacher’s?voice,?so?i?let?down?my?guard,?and?talked?happily.?at?last,?my?teacher?asked?me?to?send?some?money?to?his?credit?card,?because?he?hadn’t?carried?cash.?at?the?moment,?i?felt?so?curious,?my?teacher?would?never?did?such?thing,?he?was?a?good?teacher,?so?i?called?my?teacher?with?his?another?number,?until?then?i?realized?that?i?almost?got?cheated,?my?teacher?was?at?home?at?the?moment.
the experience of being cheated teaches me a lesson. i will be very careful when it comes to money.
today, as the media develops so fast, people can have access to all kinds of messages, they can get messages through the phone, commercial ads, the internet and so on, but the developed media also provide some bad guys with ways to cheat people’s money. people must keep an eye on the information, so they won’t be cheated.
1 when you choose a job, what factors would you?consider?
one can either choose a job with more vacation time and a low salary or a job with less vacation time yet a high salary; it all depends on ones preference and requirement. for most people, salary is more important. sometimes we will sacrifice our interest for the sake of high income. young people are different. they seek to do the work that they are really interested in. however, my first concern is professional development in the job. i want to improve my personal skills when doing the job.
besides, i want to be close to my living place. it’s going to be better if i spend little time traveling. welfare is also what i care about. i think the company should provide me with medical care and insurance. also, i care about whether i am happy or not. my boss and colleagues are important.
1.how to specifically stand up to challengesi think the first thing we need to do is to remain calm when we
the challenge can bring out the best of you in this situation.if you develop that mindset, youre facing.make the challenge easier than it is. as you get through each step,you develop more confidence and you believe you can get it done.find out all the ways you can use it to overcome it,
and put them to full use with all your effort.
2.why do people have fear for challenges or withdraw from challenges?some people will avoid any challenges, because they are scared of failing. they are becoming lazier and lazier. they do not want to do anything voluntarily. maybe its very difficult for them to challenge themselves.they allow themselves to hide behind excuses. thus, we should re-imagine those excuses, changing them into reasons for moving forward.
however, from my point of view, we can let failure and fear fuel ourselves in a positive way. we should bear in mind that everyone fails at times and wet give up.
theret assume that the best of life is behind you. challenge yourself to look forward to the highest expectations ever.
as someone puts it, challenge yourself to exceed yourself, to be better than youll quickly thank yourself for having the courage to do something about it.
(what should we do to deal with negative feeling)
people who don’t know how to effectively express their emotions wind up repressing their emotions instead. for people who have endured painful life situations, they can wind up engaging in unhealthy behaviors to avoid expressing their emotions, such as performing self-injuries or developing eating disorders. expressing emotions is the best way to release pent up feelings.
to express emotions accurately and effectively, we should recognize the importance of expressing emotions first. unexpressed em
otions affect your life. for example, many people who struggle with ongoing depression or anxiety are often actually angry. because since the unexpressed anger has nowhere to go, the person experiences the emotion as depression or anxiety as a result.
second, resolve to express your emotions as you have them. emotions must be expressed. you can either express them as you have them or you can put a lot of energy into repressing them and just wind up having to deal with a more powerful version of your emotions later. decide that you are going to express your emotions as you experience them.
third, recognize that emotions are transient. if you express your emotions as you have, they will not last. while you might feel incredibly angry at one moment, your anger will pass as long as you express it. we can also express our anger physically. anger can be a daunting emotion for many people to
express. anger is best expressed physically, especially if you have a lot of pressure.
fourth, laugh without reservation. a good laugh can be incredibly healing. do not stifle your joy. instead, express your joy by giving in to an urge to laugh. a good belly laugh can do wonders for a persons emotional state.
personally speaking, when i have negative feelings i relieve my pressure by talking to my friends.
we talk about our pressure or working conditions, and then my friends will give me some advice, which is a real relief for me.
4 would you describe yourself as an optimist or a pessimist? why?
im so happy all the time.
and take things in stride. i donve discovered it yet or not.
no?matter?how?badly?things?go,?i?always?seek?the?glimmer?of?hope?that?will?reveal?the?way?i?can?make?things?go?right?again.??i?am?always?grateful?for?what?i?have?and?counter?every?negative?with?positive.??i?have?always?infected?my?friends?with?my?optimistic?attitude?and?use?“smile?and?the?world?smiles?with?you,?weep?and?you?weep?alone”?as?my?motto.??to?my?way?of?thinking,?an?optimist?will?consider?a?problem?and?look?for?ways?to?correct?it?facing?the?difficulties,?whereas?the?pessimist?will?expend?energy?on?worry?rather?than?tackle?the?problem.??for?me,?i?am?an?optimist?but?i?am?not?over?optimist.??actually,?most?people?are?a?mix?of?optimism?and?pessimism,?but?i?always?believe?that?optimism?is?important?in?all?aspects?of?our?lives.??if?we?can?change?our?mind?from?pessimism?to?optimism,?we?can?change?our?life.
